Love Is Choosing to Heal, Not to Hurt Love is more than a feeling; it’s a choice we make every day. It’s choosing forgiveness over resentment, understanding over judgment, and hope over fear and doubt. It’s learning to let go of the pain of yesterday so we can make room for the happiness we deserveContinue reading “What is love?”
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Relationship communication
Sometimes the greatest suffering in a relationship comes not from a lack of love, but from losing sight of the love that was there. When we become consumed by each other’s flaws, mistakes, shortcomings, and the things that hurt us, we can slowly allow those things to become bigger than everything that once brought usContinue reading “Relationship communication”
Valentine for Meghan
I regret causing you pain. It hurts me too. I’m sorry for the times I reacted from fear instead of love. I’m sorry for the moments I withdrew instead of communicating, for trying to control what I should have trusted. I’m learning now — learning to listen better, to slow down, to speak with careContinue reading “Valentine for Meghan”
Investing in…
Let’s say that you have two children and give them a weekly allowance of $10. It started at 5 years old, and they are both now 18 years old. Child A, took that money and bought a toy, treat, downloaded a song, or whatever. Child B, put the money into a piggy bank and nowContinue reading “Investing in…”
Hi Mom
On Saturday, it will be your 76th birthday and with that means it will soon be 27 years since you passed away. I know you are still with me, as your voice has saved me more than once telling me to wake up. Your nudges have changed course on how I was going to proceedContinue reading “Hi Mom”
