An avoidant is a personality disorder that is marked by poor self-esteem and an intense fear of rejection. People with the condition often avoid social situations to avoid these feelings.
Or, an avoidant attachment style is a pattern where individuals steer clear of emotional closeness and tend to minimize the importance of intimate relationships, often as a way to protect themselves emotionally.
As if being an avoidant is complicated enough for someone in a relationship, there are two definitions. UGH
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